I’m confused since I have been told to write a post , I always have a lot of subjects to talk about , but suddenly all my ideas have been purchased from my head . i have been looking for hours and hours about a topic , but I did not want to talk about things that we already heard about a thousand of times from medias , and school . I want to talk about something that we don’t have the opportunity to share our ideas about , something that we do not hear often by a nineteen years old girl . As I said , before I came out with this idea I found nothing but a huge hole in my head , it’s like if I was a DEMENTOR’s victim ( this dark creature from HARRY POTTER , who swallow all positive thoughts and ideas from human soul ) , but then I gave a look around me in the street and I was like ‘wow … it’s crazy how everyone looks different! ’

Some people look expensive , and some I won’t say poor , but I will rather say middle class people . some look happy and some look like they are facing all the problems in the world . Some girls and boys are pretty and seem to have a great self esteem , and some are living in a bubble thinking that beauty is how the person looks not what she is from inside . Some are wealthy and when you talk to them you come to know that something is missing in their life , and some have this something but not a lot of money .

So I thought a lot about what should I call what I saw , what should we call these upside-downs that we see in the world ? I finally summed up with the word ‘ irony ’ , I think  we should call this ‘irony of life’.

Have you ever had this feeling that life plays you tricks ?

Sometimes you feel that you’re the happiest person in the earth , and all this happiness could be taken from you by sudden . it’s like if this happiness was just a short illusion .

The first trick was with Adam and Eve , I wonder how life would be if Adam has not bitten the apple. They say that woman screwed up this time like she does in every time , but even if Eve was not there, soon or later he could have done that . 

You know why?

Because this is our nature , this is the nature of human being , we like all forbidden things , we want to try it and see why it’s prohibited . but trying this gives us just this short illusion that I talked about . like for example drugs , some persons know that it’s bad for all reasons and although this , they still want to try it .

Still and all , the first trick where Adam and Eve failed , is the reason why we leaved heaven . the reason why we live in this irony . In matter of fact , life is like hell , it’s burning you as you start realizing what happens in the world . but anyway we don’t know if we will go to heaven or hell , so we better fight while we’re living in that world and have a little experience in this virtual hell so that we get ourselves ready in case if we go to the real one .

What I want to say , is that we meant to live like that , not everyone has what he really wants . no one is fully happy in his life , and if he tells you so , he is surely lying . But what we should do is keep holding on our optimism , hopping that one day we could have what we ask from life , but for that we should not just sit there and not doing anything but hoping . we should work on this , do our best to reach our goals or at least some of them .

 “Dream big!
But not so big that it becomes a mess, and you may never reach reality.” 

This sentence helped me to understand a lot of things , helped me to realize what I’m up to , and pushed me to change the way I was thinking . because of this sentence I learned to love what I have and dream of realistic things that I could reach by my own.

You see , when you start to be thankful for what you have , and to love what you are , in this time I swear life will seem to you as your own paradise .