I’m
confused since I have been told to write a post , I always have a lot of
subjects to talk about , but suddenly all my ideas have been purchased from my
head . i have been looking for hours and hours about a topic , but I did not
want to talk about things that we already heard about a thousand of times
from medias , and school . I want to talk about something that we don’t have
the opportunity to share our ideas about , something that we do not hear often
by a nineteen years old girl . As I said , before I came out with this idea I
found nothing but a huge hole in my head , it’s like if I was a DEMENTOR’s
victim ( this dark creature from HARRY POTTER , who swallow all positive
thoughts and ideas from human soul ) , but then I gave a look around me in the
street and I was like ‘wow … it’s crazy how everyone looks different! ’
Some people
look expensive , and some I won’t say poor , but I will rather say middle class
people . some look happy and some look like they are facing all the problems in
the world . Some girls and boys are pretty and seem to have a great self esteem
, and some are living in a bubble thinking that beauty is how the person looks
not what she is from inside . Some are wealthy and when you talk to them you
come to know that something is missing in their life , and some have this something
but not a lot of money .
So I thought a lot about what should I call what I saw , what should we call these
upside-downs that we see in the world ? I finally summed up with the word ‘
irony ’ , I think we should call this
‘irony of life’.
Have you
ever had this feeling that life plays you tricks ?
Sometimes
you feel that you’re the happiest person in the earth , and all this happiness
could be taken from you by sudden . it’s like if this happiness was just a
short illusion .
The first
trick was with Adam and Eve , I wonder how life would be if Adam has not bitten
the apple. They say that woman screwed up this time like she does in every
time , but even if Eve was not there, soon or later he could have done that .
You know
why?
Because this
is our nature , this is the nature of human being , we like all forbidden
things , we want to try it and see why it’s prohibited . but trying this gives
us just this short illusion that I talked about . like for example drugs , some
persons know that it’s bad for all reasons and although this , they still want
to try it .
Still and
all , the first trick where Adam and Eve failed , is the reason why we leaved
heaven . the reason why we live in this irony . In matter of fact , life is like hell , it’s burning you as you start realizing what happens in
the world . but anyway we don’t know if we will go to heaven or hell , so we
better fight while we’re living in that world and have a little experience in
this virtual hell so that we get ourselves ready in case if we go to the real one
.
What I want
to say , is that we meant to live like that , not everyone has what he really
wants . no one is fully happy in his life , and if he tells you so , he is surely
lying . But what we should do is keep holding on our optimism , hopping that
one day we could have what we ask from life , but for that we should not just
sit there and not doing anything but hoping . we should work on this , do our
best to reach our goals or at least some of them .
“Dream big!
But not so big that it becomes a mess, and you
may never reach reality.”
This sentence
helped me to understand a lot of things , helped me to realize what I’m up to ,
and pushed me to change the way I was thinking . because of this sentence I
learned to love what I have and dream of realistic things that I could reach by
my own.
You see ,
when you start to be thankful for what you have , and to love what you are , in
this time I swear life will seem to you as your own paradise .